Most people think of racists as ugly, monstrous creatures who parade the world with signs that proclaim “I hate black people.” The truth is that most of the racism you will encounter in your predominantly white institution is wrapped in smiles and sometimes, even big bear hugs. You will encounter the kind of racism that creeps in unknowingly and slowly wraps you in its arms. The kind of racism that performs its compassion and uses “this experience must be so difficult for you,” as code for “you poor thing. How do you manage to keep up with us?” Similarly, you will encounter self-proclaimed good white folk who insist on signaling their virtue through reciting their memorized “good white person” creed. The creed stresses that the good white person in question acknowledges you, “sees” you and “hears” you.
It stresses that good white people want to make sure that you "have a seat at the table." In this instance, you are not allowed to point out that they do not own the table, and that you can and will “sit” wherever you please. Good white people will also often ask you about your favorite customs at home, only to become visibly disinterested in the answer when it does not sustain their fantasy. They will often clothe their fantasy surprise and shock at your magnificence. Girl, all this to say that when your first white person inevitably gifts you with your first nice racism package, make sure to smile politely and thank them.
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